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Jayne Lakey

February 26, 1956 — December 19, 2025

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Jayne Lakey

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Jayne C. Lakey, 69, of Cabot, Arkansas, entered this world in sublime radiance, and departed this earthly plane in her home setting, in the night shelter of a magic prairie sky. Our Beloved. The one with abiding love for family and friends, a bear hug for all, vigor for adventure, number one Disney fan, and devotee of Nebraska and Montana football.

On February 26, 1956, Jayne was born to Douglas Y. Freeman and Gladys Freeman of Hardin, Montana, where she was raised with three siblings. During her youth, she was active in the Hardin community, including Pom Pom Drill Team, theater, and Rainbow Girls. She often reminisced about her family outings in the Big Yellow School Bus and cliff-jumping while boating at Bighorn Lake in Montana.

Jayne graduated from Hardin Senior High, Class of ’74, then ventured to Billings, where she

attended (then) Eastern Montana College to pursue studies in business management. In 1980, she met the love of her life, Steven D. Lakey, and they married at United Methodist Church in Hardin. Steve’s evolving work in television arts gave them, and later their kids, a grand opportunity to live around the nation, including California, Nevada, Kentucky, and Maine, eventually returning to Billings. Jayne and Steve artfully created “Kids Matter,” a monthly newsletter for middle-school students in the Billings metro area.

Jayne and Steve brought into this world two beautiful kids. To both strangers and friends alike, Jayne spoke proudly of their accomplishments. She radiated genuine warmth for her kids’ well-being, speaking tenderly of their pathways in this sojourn called Life. With fondness, they recall their Mom’s annual holiday traditions: making Norwegian lefse and showing them colorful lights of Christmas Wreath Lane and Zoo Montana, with Candy Cane Lane a merry bonus. Jayne was wholly devoted to her four grand kids, never missing a band concert or school activity and frequently capturing sweet photos of them growing tall, having fun, and playing instruments or sports.

While family meant everything to Jayne, her career path found purpose. She was literally a “Jayne of all trades,” working cheerfully for school administrators and law firms, as well as curating arts-and-crafts for campers at KOA Campgrounds during Montana summers. Some of her most meaningful work has been substitute teaching at Westside Elementary in Searcy, Arkansas, where her young students delighted with smiles in her classroom presence.

Much joy can be written about Jayne. She embodied a fondness for the great outdoors at a young age, to include airplane rides with her Dad, a zeal for the road less traveled, and concern for others. She did all these things while being herself, marching to her own drum. A life fully lived. Might we all be so lucky to embrace such treasures for ourselves.

Jayne is survived by her children Michelle Lakey and Shawn Lakey; her grandchildren Cyrus, Bailey, Alana, and Connor; her sisters Julie Hermsmeyer and Janet Freeman; her sister-in-law Lori Freeman; her brothers-in-law Mark Lakey and Buddy Lakey; and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

We hope Jayne is now bringing smiles to the faces of those preceding her: her husband; her parents; her brother Doug Freeman; her parents-in-law Lyle and Margaret Johnson; her father-in-law Ray Lakey, and; her brother-in-law Richard Lakey.

In 2026, there will be two Celebrations of Jayne: the first at Mount Carmel Baptist Church in Cabot, Arkansas, at 10 a.m., on February 7. The second one will be next Spring/Summer in Billings, Montana, with details forthcoming soon.

If you would like, please share your memories of Jayne by e-card.

In lieu of flowers, you may make a donation in Jayne’s name to her favorite charities: the National Multiple Sclerosis Society and Make-A-Wish Foundation. Jayne, we love you more!

Cremation arrangements by Smith-Westbrook Funeral Home, 404 W. Dewitt Henry Dr., Beebe, Arkansas. Online guestbook at: www.smithfamilycares.com.

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